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The new year is upon us. And I was thinking about a conversation I had with my wife about positive relationships. And sadly, unhealthy relationships.

The chat was in light of couples. However, I think the idea makes sense across contexts into business, family, and friendships.

The metaphor I came up with was with my two hands out in front of me. And in a healthy relationship we merge into one collective. Losing what wasn’t necessary, and growing into our larger better selves.  The hands slowly merging into one. And then I saw this video on Facebook which demonstrates the lesson perfectly.

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The unhealthy relationship is perhaps the left hand pulling the other hand over into a forced merge. A controlling merge. Where the one side loses themselves to the control. Until their purpose is lost.

So I remind you, as I will myself. To seek relationships from here on out that have your better self and your better outcomes in mind.

Happy and Prosperous New Year to you and  yours!